Dear Universe: Change is hard, thanks for the little wins

Dear Universe, Guardian Angels, Ancestors and Spirit Guides,

I set the intention for this blog provide guidance, healing and inspiration to those that read it. I ask that this message come from a place of truth and compassion. Let it be of the highest quality and assist those reading it in making mindful decisions. All those decisions have a positive impact in their life. My will, thy will, divine will. I know that through you all is possible. I come to you with a grateful and thankful heart.

Change is hard! Making decisions are hard. Thank you for the little wins

Every time you feel a little lost or begin to feel like you lost your way does everything suddenly seem to align? Can you see the light through darkness? What I mean by darkness is the darkness of the mind. The old thought patterns that somehow begin to find their way to the surface. You know the thoughts that keep you in a place of fear. The ones that want you to resist change that is happening. Better yet the thoughts that keep you from seeing all the good that is around you. I am talking about the thoughts that want to suck you back into thinking that you are not worthy, things will not get better, or you are not good enough.

I am here to tell you that you are good enough. I know you may not be able to see it right now but you must stop resisting change. You must stop trying to control the outcomes. Resisting will only bring more obstacles.  It is time for you to believe and trust that the changes are happening for your highest good. Speak the positivity into your life. The more you do it the easier it gets.

 There will constantly be times when moments of doubt will surface. Continue to practice replacing those doubts with thoughts that serve you. Believing that you have all the tools you need to move forward in such a way that aligns for outcomes that are favorable for all. Soon you will see that those moments of doubt will not come as often. I know that there have been times where those moments would last what felt like lifetimes. The key is to be consistent and persistent. Remember, you are a soul having a human experience. Part of that human experience is feeling all emotions to include doubt. In those times feel it, identify the trigger and release it. Use that energy in a positive way. Allow yourself to make adjustments and see what you can do in the now to assist with whatever you are faced with. Sometimes the thing you can do is to detach from the outcome. Releasing the worry. Worry is a wasted emotion that takes your energy pulling you away from opportunities that are being presented to you now.

Be grateful for the little wins. The little wins bring hope. Little wins light your path. They provide clarification that the work you are doing is not in vain. I know it is easier said than done.  Embrace the changes you are faced with.

Everything is constantly changing. Nothing stays the same. People change, places change, time changes, values and beliefs change. If one thing stays the same it is that change is constant. Without change there would be no experience or growth. I understand that. That does not make it any easier. Change is hard. Especially when it seems to hit you all at one time.

How do you embrace that change when it seem to be one event after another? Here are a few ways that you can embrace change:

  • Go with the flow
  • Stay true to your faith
  • Trust that things are happening for your highest good
  • Believe that things are happening for you not to you
  • Find the good in the situation
  • It’s all perspective
  • Find a way to get excited about the unknown
  • Know that through change there is new beginnings
  • Put good energy into things you find joy in
  • Acceptance (accept that the change is happening)
  • Consider it a new adventure in the story of your life

The list goes on and on.  Change is clearing out things that are keeping energy from evolving. Let’s get rolling with the punches. Let’s start making decisions, taking the leap into the unknown and allow the universe to lead the way. Knowing that ultimately we only have control over how we react to the changes that are happening. Throwing all caution to the wind and welcome roller coaster of life, knowing that there will be good in every day allowing us to open our eyes to those moments.  

Dear Universe: The best investment

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Dear Universe, Guardian Angels, Ancestors and Spirit Guides,

I set the intention for this blog provide guidance, healing and inspiration to those that read it. I ask that this message come from a place of truth and compassion. Let it be of the highest quality and assist those reading it in making mindful decisions. All those decisions have a positive impact in their life. My will, thy will, divine will. I know that through you all is possible. I come to you with a grateful and thankful heart.

I want to make an investment that will serve my highest good. What do I need to do?

Dear soul,

The number one investment that you can ever make when it comes to your highest good is to invest in yourself at the present moment. Yes there will be times that you need to glance into the future or look to the past. However, in this very moment that most important investment is to invest into yourself and the feeding your soul. This investment is going to have the upmost impact on your future.

Cultivating your soul will lead you to remember what you value the most. It will reopen a flood gates of memories leading you back to your purpose in this life time.  The purpose of finding love. (Love of yourself, love of others, love for life) Finding love in being. Put positive energy into yourself and your passion. As you do so you will discover new things about you, your passions, people and the world around you.

It is now time to let your heart lead you. Your heart is leading you where you need to go. The need to control and follow logic is what you have been conditioned to do in the past. You are not meant to be the past version of you. Trust your heart. Trust your intuition. The brain has a way of wanting to make the simplest answers difficult. The brain is a tool that in the past you have allow to control and make sense of things to give them meaning or purpose. It doesn’t have to be so hard. The answer that you are looking for is so simple. Love! Love is the answer. Invest in loving yourself. Invest in the things that bring love in your life. Invest in the things that bring the joy back to your journey. By doing so you will continue to see that even when faced with difficult times you will find they will pass quicker.

Everyday set good intentions. Choose to live from a place of gratitude and love. This is to include the things that you do not enjoy. This things you do not find joy in are teaching great lessons that are going to assist you as you encounter others on their journey. When you feel like you cannot handle some things do not be afraid to ask for help. Remember you are a soul having a human experience. Part of that human experience will require the help of others. It does not make you any less than.

For now just slow down. Take a deep breath. Allow the seeds that you have already planted to begin to sprout. Remember slow and steady progression is the best kind of progression. Do not rush it.

Over all do not forget invest in you. You are the best investment you will ever make.

Dear Universe: Why am I all over the place? Am I blocked? If so what is blocking me?

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I set the intention that this blog provide guidance, healing and inspiration to those that read it. I ask that it assist them in making mindful decisions that may impact their life path. My will, Thy will, Divine will. Thank you for all you do. I know that through you all is possible.

Dear Universe, Guardian Angels, Ancestors and Spirit Guides,

I come to you for guidance. I ask that you assist me in providing guidance for myself and the people that read this. I ask that it be a message of the highest quality and assist them as they make decisions on their life journey.

Why am I all over the place?Am I blocked? If so what is blocking me?

Oh dear soul. You are all over the place because right now you are in a time of self-discovery. Patience has never been your strong suit when it comes to results.  It is one of the lessons you are learning right now.  You ultimately know that. We hear your prayers and thoughts. We know you want results now. We ask you to explore what emotions you are feeling. Why they are coming up? What is triggering them? Is it a person, place or thing? Pay attention to how you are reacting. That is the only thing you can control. Do not waste your time with worry for how another is acting or lashing out. That is their responsibility not yours. Grasping and holding on to the past will only make the process more painful.

Transformations are not easy. Please keep in mind it was the path you decided on. You always have selected the hardest paths. Everything you are going through is for a purpose far greater than you understand at the moment.  All that you need to know will be revealed soon enough.  Have you taken a second to think maybe you are being asked to take a breath and pause? Even though you feel like there is no forward movement that is not true. You and a lot of other people like you have been taught they have to fight and claw their way to where they want to go.

In this moment we implore you to put that hard worker/positive energy that you have into yourself instead of giving to others. It is not a time to sell yourself short. It is a time of great change for you. It is not meant for you to know all the time. You have to release the fear of the unknown and find excitement in the mystery.  Everyone goes through times where they are unclear and confused of the why associated with the changes that are happening around them. Please do not give up. Just stay true to your faith and trust the process. Like any process you have to go through every step for it to be a successful process. Do not try to rush the finish product. If you must reflect and see progress go back read your journal. Take the time to return to your breath and find guidance through your mediation.

Why do you feel like something is blocking you? When it comes to the Universe, your guardian angels, ancestors and spirit guides we are always supporting you and ready to assist for your highest good. You are not being blocked we would never want that for you. In fact the only limitation that you have are the limitations you put on yourself. Once you really accept and realize you and your beliefs are the only thing holding you back you will find freedom.

You must also find a way to allow things to fall away from you. If a place or a person does not feel right to you take it as a sign from us that it is not meant for you at the moment or perhaps any longer.  Do not be afraid to separate yourself from things that are not lifting you up or supporting the changes that you are making. Your job is not to make others understand why you are making the decisions that you are making. Others may not understand and you may not even know how to explain it either. Trust that there is a divine reason for it all. Trust that even if times are hard at the moment and you feel a disconnect with who you are or even who you are becoming there is reason for it. If you could see the reason for it the hard work and lessons would be skipped over.

When you feel like you are disconnected we ask you to come back home. Come back to your breath. Your breath is the key. It brings calm and helps you center. It brings clarity. We are always with you. Surrender to the process. When you need a sign that you are on the right path ask for a specific sign from us. Be very specific. We will deliver. Now, in this moment we want you to think of the time that you felt the most love/joy/happiness in your life. What memory do you have? Take that feeling and internalize it. Come back to it whenever you need to. Use it to propel you through the times like now. Never forget you are love, you are worthy, you are strong, you are all things you tell yourself and you must continue to believe the impossible is possible. Ultimately, you are all things that you see in others. For that reason you must love and accept yourself unconditionally.  

Dear Universe, Am I making it all up?

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I set the intention that this blog provide guidance, healing and inspiration to those that read it. I ask that it assist them in making mindful decisions that may impact their life path. My will, Thy will, Divine will. Thank you for all you do.I know that through you all is possible.

Dear Universe, Guardian Angels, Ancestors and Spirit Guides,

I come to you for guidance. I ask that you assist me in providing guidance for myself and the people that read this. I ask that it be a message of the highest quality and assist them as they make decisions on their life journey.

How do I stand up for what I believe and feel is true? How do I know I am not making it all up?

Dear soul, the healing process is a continuous thing. Even the most positive people have days where thoughts can lead them astray. Know that it is very important to be mindful with where you allow your thoughts to take you. Your thoughts will quickly manifest into the environment around you. It is imperative that you remember that your mind is a tool. You are not your mind. Over time using the mind as a tool will become easier.  Do not lose hope. Know that you are exactly where you need to be right now. You are learning and mastering the lessons that you came to this earth to learn. Through learning your lessons you will find that you will lead others to learn their lessons too. You must learn to crawl, walk then run. Right now you are growing. Take a moment and see how things are starting to sprout around you. Do not get lost in the big picture.

Know that your intuition and higher self is leading you exactly where you need to be. Your angels want you to stay present. Pay attention to the now. You need to be an observer. Watch people and observe their energy. It will tell you everything you need to know . Look at their eyes let them connect to you. There is power in that connection. Allow them to see your light. That is how you stand up for what you believe in. Letting your light shine will get you further than you can ever imagine. Just be you! The true authentic you! That soul is beautiful.

Do not be afraid to love. Your heart and love is powerful. You were meant to love with all your heart. It is your strength. It does not make you weak. Do not hold back any longer.  You have the strength to love people on levels they have never felt before. You have the ability to love yourself at a level that you have never felt before. Give yourself the love that you give other people. It will allow your light to shine even brighter. Do not feel guilty or shameful when you have to do things for yourself. If you do not care for yourself. Caring for others will become difficult. It will cause you to become burnt out. Remember leading, healing and caring for others is what you are meant to do. Do not lose the joy in it.  Burnout will decrease the joy. It is necessary to take the time outs.

Continue to set our intentions out of a place of love. The intention will never lead you astray. Also remember what is yours will always find you. Keep your faith. Stand firm in your faith. Remember faith is learned one step at a time. There are many things that you do not see but you will. Some of these things you will face will be difficult. You have the strength to do all you need to do. When you seek answers return to the breath. The breath is life. Through the stillness of meditation you will find all the answers you need will be presented to you.

You are healing others. Remember that there are some that only see the bad broken parts of the world. You will help them see that there is good that is worth saving. All of it starts by nourishing your internal world. You have a deep knowing and there will be many confirmations that will and have been sent your way. Do not waste your time worrying if you are making it up. Remember that you just have to have faith in where you are being lead. There is a reason and purpose for it all. You will see your part soon enough. Trust in divine timing. Right now focus on keeping yourself in the higher vibrations as much as possible. Continue to work on the things that you can and surrender control of the things you can’t to your spiritual team and the universe.

Forgive yourself when you start to doubt.  Forgive yourself when you feel like you are falling short. You are human just like everyone else on this planet. You are not expected to be perfect. You have been working hard. It does not go unnoticed. Release doubt. Do not hold on to your doubt any longer.

Be grateful for the relationships you have built. Be grateful for the relationships that are falling away. Everyone you interact with is an opportunity to learn and grow for not only them but for you.  Believe that you are everything you dream to be and then some. You are strong. You are loved. You are confident. You are supported! Just breath and trust that the universe has your back always.

Control not the answer

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One of the hardest lessons I have had to learn is to release the need to control the journey. The knowing of where my path ends but not knowing the who, what, when, where or how I am going to get there. I know I am not alone in this. In the past I would envision things I want to happen or set expectations on how it is supposed to happen. Only to find I had set myself up for disappointment and missed opportunities. The more I would try to control one of the 5 w’s the more difficult the process would become. It would be the equivalent of herding cats. Nothing goes as planned and more chaos is created. As I type this I hear you cannot control the Universe. It is so true.

Sometimes we can get so focused on where we want to go that we lose where we are now. Where we are now is the most important place to be. This is where we are building foundations, planting our seeds and learning the lessons we came here to learn. This has to happen so when we get to the final destination we can be in a place to receive it fully. Trying to control the path is in a sense cheating yourself. When you try to control it you are telling the Universe that your way is the best way. Meaning that where you are right now is exactly where you want to stay. The Universe doesn’t consider stagnancy an option. You really only have two options. Either you grow or you regress. Which one is it going to be?

If you chose to grow you cant expect it to happen overnight. My advice to you would be to release all expectation on how you think things will happen. Definitely do not put a time frame on it. Growing takes time. Just like if you were to plant a garden there is work that must be done before you see the harvest. You have to till the soil, plant the seeds, water, weed and feed. The same applies for your soul growth. It is not like one day you wake up and you do not have to deal with your daily life. In fact it is quite the opposite. Your daily life is your school for your soul growth. The decisions you make daily in your life is leading you towards the reason you were brought to this wonderful planet. If you chose to not grow and surrender you will find that the outcome is never easy. Remember that everything is energy and energy is always changing. The universe is going to continue to put things in your path that will require you to make decisions. How you chose to interpret them will be totally up to you. Free will is a tricky thing. Everyone has a breaking point. What I mean is that eventually everyone has a moment that brings them to the realization that they have no control over the things around them. The only thing they can ever control is how to they react to the things that are being sent their way.

Some days are harder than others. Some decisions you will make will impact your life and the lives of others. Everything will not always be easy. Walking a spiritual path or even being a spiritual being is hard. It allows you to see things others cannot. You feel the emotion and energy of others at times. Sometimes you may not even know if the emotions you are experiencing are your emotions or the emotions of others. Do not allow times like this overwhelm you or cause you to throw in the towel. When you are feeling overwhelmed or it is too hard. Remember you do not have to do it alone. The answer is definitely not to try to control it. The answer is to surrender. Surrender you desire out to the universe, come back to self through meditation and listen for guidance. Once you surrender you will begin to see the signs that you are in alignment. This can be through the words of people you are interacting with. It can be through repetitive numbers often referred to as angel numbers. It could be through the lyrics of music or even pictures. You just have to come back to self, release control and surrender to the will of the universe.

Feel Your Energy

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Have you ever just sat and looked at the environment around you? What do you see? Well if you ask 100 different people I am confident you would get 100 different answers. Some would simply look around and give you descriptions of the objects they are surrounded by. Others would notice the people that they are directly interacting with. There would be others that would describe the things they are hearing and some the things they are smelling. If you were to ask me what I see in the environment around me. There is no telling what answer you will get on any given day. In my daily life I see things differently all the time.

I have the ability to see energy. Feel energy and manipulate energy. Yes, you read that correctly. It is something I can do. Believe it or not it is something you can do too. Don’t laugh! I know you may be skeptical but it is real. Energy is everything! Energy is around you, in you, used by you and put out by you. You are energy. Yes, you read that correctly too. Would you like to me to teach you how to connect with your own energy? Connecting to your own energy is key to understanding the energy around you. Once you can sit and really know what your energy feels like it allows feeling and seeing energy in your environment much easier.

It all starts with your breath. Now you will want to do this in a place where you are not going to be easily disturbed. Also it is important to release any expectation you have about what may happen. Expectations can hinder the process. You really want to be able to focus and pay attention to any changes that are happening in the body and around the body. Pay attention to any sensation (hearing, seeing, smelling, tasting, touch/feel). Do not be discouraged if the first time you do this you see or feel nothing. It is all about persistency and consistency. Every person is different and it happens for them in different ways. If this doesn’t work of you it is OK. Try another technique.

Step 1: Find a quiet place where you wont be disturbed and just sit. Set the intention that this be done out of a place of love for yourself and for the energy around you. State out loud that you release any energy that is not yours that does not serve you on both the physical and non-physical level. That nothing but love enter and love remain. Intention is important.

Step 2: Start to focus on your breath. Take a deep breath in hold it for 2 seconds and let it out. Continue to focus on the breath. Allow it to become a smooth & rhythmic in and out focusing on the rise and fall of your breathing point. As you focus on the breath you might begin to feel a change in the environment around you. Some might feel a tingling around the head/neck. Just pay attention to what you are feeling. (This can be done with your eyes open or closed).

Step 3: The next thing you are going to do is while still breathing place all your focus on your feet. Sending all your energy to your feet. Continuing to breath. Deep breath in (hold for 2 seconds and deep breath out). Focus all your energy on your feet.

Step 4: Now, I want you to imagine that there is a glowing swirling white light of energy coming up from the earth into your feet. The energy is of the purest form straight from the earth. Feel the energy moving from the earth into your feet. Just feel the energy. Next, I want you to allow the energy to move up the legs, over the knees, through the thighs, over the hips, through the abdomen, into the chest, through the heart, over the shoulders, through the neck, up into the head and shooting up straight into the universe as far as you can imagine.

Step 5: You are now a direct line from the universe to mother earth. Feel the energy flowing through you freely. Now it is time to continue to make some mental notes. What are you feeling? What does your energy feel like? Did you feel any change in the environment around you? Do you see colors? Do you see images? Do you smell or hear anything? The experience is different for everyone. When you feel ready focus back on the breath. Make sure to thank the universe for the experience. Start to wiggle your toes, fingers and other parts of the body. If you closed your eyes it is time to open them. If you decided to keep your eyes open really look at the environment around you. Does it seem the same?

Step 6: Take a moment for yourself and just sit. Make sure you back in your surroundings and ready before you go and jump up and run off to the next thing. It is not uncommon to feel a little disoriented. Never do this when you really need to focus. (like driving, operating machinery or anything that really requires 100% of your attention).

Like I mentioned this will experience is different for everyone. Some times I even do this while am on a walk. I will focus on my breathing and allow myself to experience the energy as I go. As I began to do this more and more I was able to see the energy more clearly. I began to see that everything is energy. Everything has its own energy and you can see it. You just have to be open. Being open all starts with understanding your energy. Once you start to understand that you will really begin to see the world in a whole new way.

Whole-Being work is hard! Just roll with it!

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If I was to be honest, everything in my life is not sunshine in rainbows. Nobody has a life where they are happy all the time. Just like everyone else there are things that I don’t want to deal with. Come on who really wants to look at the parts of themselves that some would consider “toxic”? I certainly didn’t and still don’t like doing it. I am here to tell you that you are not alone.  We all go through it.  Do not be afraid to seek guidance on how to go through the process. Shoot just yesterday I had to reach out for clarity, direction and guidance. Healing, growing and change is a continuous process. Energy is always moving and changing. We are energy which means we are constantly changing too. That means who you were yesterday you are not today. There is only who you are today. Don’t get lost in the idea of being stuck, feeling unworthy or whatever self-imposed belief you have bestowed upon yourself.

We all have parts of ourselves that need healing. Trust the process. You have to feel your way through it. To get to it! Don’t get lost in the thoughts. Feel them, identify the emotion, accept it and then release it.  There are things about myself that I don’t want anyone to see. Yes, I can be a mean person. There are people that would say I was mean and they have every right to say that. I probably was mean to them and probably did something to them that didn’t align with their belief or values.

Overall I try my very best to treat people well. I never set an intention that I am going to hurt. That doesn’t mean it won’t happen. I am human like everyone else. Sometime I can be hot headed and let my mouth run away with me. One thing that my awakening has taught me is that I have to accept myself for it. So I do. I forgive myself when I stick my foot in my mouth. Then I look at the why behind it. Why did I get hot headed? What was being triggered at the moment?  What part did I play in the situation? I mean real part. Not my side of the story part. When was the first time I felt that emotion. I identify it and I let it go. I release the guilt, judgement and self-imposed attachment to it and release it up. I release it to the universe. I ask for healing. I ask for clarity. That doesn’t mean that I am never triggered again. It means that I have identified the why and now I can accept the part I played.

Whole being work is not easy. I say whole being work because I think it important to work on the whole self. The whole self because the shadow side of you never goes away. You just learn to accept yourself for it. Your shadow side will always be apart of you. It is not like you can detach it and throw it away. So accept it. Love the shadow part of you like you would the light part. Remember the light needs the dark just like the dark needs the light. There is beauty in both. Accept the parts of you that you look upon or have been programmed to believe are unfavorable.

The real question you need to ask yourself is “who gets to say it is unfavorable”? You or someone else? Who are you giving that power to? Let me tell you I have given my power away too many times! No more! I take my power back. I have cared what others have thought about me. I have dimmed and pushed my needs and desires off for way too long.  I have kept quite at times when I wanted to scream No at the top of my lungs. I have allowed myself to be hid in the shadows and for what. The happiness of others. The worry that because I have a different view or might be a little eccentric compared to them they will judge me.  You know what that is fine. Let them judge. They have every right to think or act how they want it’s their life. Just like it is my life.

Have you spoke up and actually spoke what you want? Or have you been saying everything you don’t want? Now that I look back at I see that when I would speak about what I don’t want the more what I didn’t want would happen. Words are powerful. No more! Now I catch myself. When I start to say I don’t want I quickly rephrase to what I do want. Remember people only hear part of what you tell them so make sure that you are telling them what you want.

I said this earlier and I will say this again. Whole-being work is hard! It is hard to accept yourself for the good, bad and ugly. Some days will be easier compared to others. That is OK. There is nothing wrong with having a not so great day. Those days pass. Just like the good days pass. That is life. That is the amazing thing about life. It is like a roller coaster of ups and downs that fill you with a plethora of emotions/feelings.  So roll with it. Learn to go with the flow. Teach yourself to accept yourself for who you are. Be the person that eats lunch and hears an amazing song on the radio and dances in the seat while you eat. Why not! Enjoy it. Who cares who is watching? If you feel it do it. Laugh at yourself when someone else laughs at you. It’s good to laugh at yourself. Laughter is good for the soul!  I encourage you to laugh at me. Maybe you just being you making them laugh raised their vibration and didn’t even know it.  Accept yourself as you are. Doing so will also allow you to accept others for who they are. Everyone wants acceptance! There is no better place to start. So look yourself in the mirror and tell that person looking a back that you love them. You forgive them for all the things you have done to yourself and other. Then tell them you accept them. You accept them for who they are. The person they are in this moment. 

Dear Universe,

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Dear Universe, Guardian Angels, ancestors and spirit guides,

I know that through you all is possible. I set the intention that this blog provide guidance, healing and inspiration to those that read it. I ask that it assist them in making mindful decisions that may impact their life path. My will, Thy will, Divine will. Thank you for all you do.

What do we need to know in regards to the decisions we are currently struggling with?

The answer to your question has already been given to you multiple times. The problem is not what you need to know. It is what you need to do. The answer was presented to you the first time you asked it. You didn’t listen. You can ask and rephrase the question as many times as you would like but you are going to continue to get the same answer.

Your intuition will never lead you in the wrong direction. You decided to take the middle road. Remember the middle road is the long way. You will still have to learn a few lessons because you chose not address them head on. Addressing your problems head on is always the answer. Speak up if it is what you are feeling. Stand up for what you believe in.  You have to do what is right for you. Unfortunately, sometimes what is right for you will not sit well with others. It may even hurt them.  

You know that you manifest your reality. So do it. Manifest your reality. If you can think it, you can dream it. You can live it. Remember it takes work. Sometimes hard work. It all starts with you. What are you doing in the now that is influencing the outcome you want? Is there forward movement being made? Are you just getting impatient because you want to rush to the finish line? What are you learning in the moment? Pay close attention there are lessons to be learned. Continue to build your foundation. Bring balance back into your life. When the foundation is built on sturdy ground you will find that it can withstand the strongest storms.

Pay attention! The universe and your spiritual team are constantly sending you signs. They may be in the form of repeating numbers. The words of a song might lead to answers. Feel the energy around you. Close your eyes and just breath. The answers come in many ways. You will know the answer that is meant for you. You will feel it! Let your heart be your guide. Allow your heart to open and lead the way.

It is not a time to rush anything. You are making life changing decisions. You have to do it at the pace that is right for you. Right now it is time to look at the things that are working in your favor. What is currently thriving? Put your good energy into that. Really, look at where you are finding your happiness. Are you finding your happiness from within or searching for it through external factors? Are you cultivating an environment that is nurturing your growth or hindering your growth? Is there anything you can do in the now that can assist while the universe catches up with your dream? These are the real questions that you need to be asking yourself. These are the questions that will facilitate action.

Know that no matter where you are right now, you are on the right path for you. There is no wrong way. There are only lessons that will be learned that lead to your destiny. You have to have faith and trust. Rely on your faith. Take it one step at a time. One hour at a time, even one minute at a time if that is what it takes for you to stay present. Divine timing is a real thing. Continue to focus on being the best version of yourself. Put your good energy into that.  When you make a decision stand behind that decision and embrace whatever comes your way with confidence. Do not allow others to influence what is right for you. Only you know what is right for you. Remember, you are the co-creator of your life.

Release the Fear

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One day you are high on cloud nine. Everything seems to be going your way. You know and can see that everything is working in your favor and you are co-creating the life that you are destined for.  Then suddenly life throws you a curve ball. You had a plan and the universe decided that nope you still have lessons to learn. You know where you are going but just not the how. The not knowing can be a scary thing. There is a reason for it all. There is a reason everything cannot always go how you plan them. The universe is trying to show you a new path or lead you in a way that will cultivate your growth. I am told to tell you to release the fear. Take the leap. Take your fear and turn it into motivation. Don’t allow it to be a reason for you to stay where you are.  

When you start allowing the not knowing the how or why you begin to live out of fear. You start to question yourself and wonder if you were even actually doing the work. Shoot you may even begin to think that you were the one that was causing all the trauma and the toxic one the whole time.  What if I told you that is just your fear speaking to you? The fear of going backwards. The fear of change. The fear of rejection. The fear of moving forward and making the decisions for your higher good. The list of fears can go on forever. In some this may be a fear that if you leave a situation that you may lose that person forever. My response to you would be what if you find yourself in the process. What if you find that you never really lose anything that is meant for you? That at the time it is in your life it was something you needed. By letting it go you will find that new opportunities for growth will come your way. That through one loss you are rewarded with something else.

Fear is one of the biggest contributing factors when it comes to making life changing decisions. Some fear the loss of a person. Others fear being alone. The fear of not being good enough. There are people that have built lives based on status and material things(money) due to the fear of poverty. The fear of being perceived as a failure. The fear of ___________ (you name it) it exists in someone’s world.

You must ask yourself “what am I really scared of”? Why am I holding on so tight to something that continues to bring be back to the same answer? “Let go! Move on! If it is meant for you it will find you”. It is hard to remember what yours is already yours and no one can ever really take it from you. Unless you allow it. It is your choice. What are you going to do? Are you going to continue to allow fear to run your life, or are you going to take that fear and use it to propel you forward?

There is only one thing blocking you from having the life you desire. Look in the mirror all the answers you need are within the person staring back at you. Stop letting the fear of the unknown be why you don’t do something. Don’t sell yourself short. You are worthy and deserving of everything you dream of. You must put in some work. Release the fear! Let it go. Use that fear as a force that influences you to make decision that are for your highest good.

The time is now

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I have struggled for the past couple days trying to figure out what I am going to write my next blog about. I have wrote down a plethora of different ideas. Started to write a ton of topic sentences all to draw a blank and delete. I have sat here looking at a blank screen for days. I set the intention for this blog to find the people that need to read it at the time that is meant for them. Let it bring insight and guidance as they make decisions on their life path. My will, thy will, divine will.

Suddenly as I sit hear listening to some calming music the idea pops into my head that I had already wrote my next blog. I had to start with what I believe. What a great way to start the year off. Start it off reaffirming what you value and believe. I actually wrote this back in December but never posted it. I am now being told the time is now.

Loving yourself unconditionally is the key to connecting to source. I believe that everything is energetically connected. We are all part of this great universe and the universe is part of us. I believe that we should treat others with respect and kindness.  Compassion, acceptance and living out of a place on non-judgement is the key to maintain a frequency that aligns with the frequency of the universe.  Always receive your energy from source by aligning with the higher frequencies. This allows you to use your energy in such ways that benefit all that you encounter.

All souls have a divine purpose and their life is their purpose. I whole heartily believe that love is the key to the return of humanity. That the return starts with each individual being. Forgiveness is never for the receiver but for the person forgiving. Forgiving yourself for past judgements, actions, and sabotaging behaviors is the key to releasing blockages. This allows each person to receive and lived their abundant life in the now.  Self-reflection allows for the identification and clearing of all blockages. This is on both the physical and non-physical level. It is key to remember that we are not the decisions of others. We are only the decision that we make. Our actions are the only actions that we can control in our life time. Every action, every decision is your energy used to shape your life. It is important to use your energy in the most positive ways to ensure the universe can deliver the life you are destined to live.

Through the nurturing of children to include your inner child there is healing. Healing yourself will naturally help heal those around you. The world as you know it will start to change drastically.  Showing yourself compassion allows for you to show compassion for others. Loving yourself allows you to love others.  Release all fears, judgements and guilt associated with the past. The past is no longer. The future has not yet arrived. There is only right now this present moment so how present do you want to be?

Speak your truth. Be mindful with your thoughts and words. Your thoughts quickly become your reality. Your words will not only influence your life but the life of others. Still honor your truth. This must be done in such a way that you honor yourself and your emotions. Your truth and desires may not always align with others. That is to be expected. Everyone is on their own path. However, it is important to remember that they also have a truth. It is not your place to judge. It is your place to accept they are just on a different path and have not yet learned or understand yet. Show them they are still worthy of love and see them for who they are. People deserve to be loved for just existing.

Do not be afraid of releasing things that no longer serve you. Sometimes things just are not meant for you any longer. Trust that what is yours will always return to you. Believe and have faith. Those that love you will find you. It is your job to be grateful for what you have now so when you receive your destiny you will understand the true value of how you got there. The present moments are the key to unveiling that destiny. So be present. Tell those you love you love them. Make it known that you are there even if they can’t hear you.

Opportunities will arise. Take every opportunity. Every person you encounter will have a purpose. There is a lesson to learn or a message to receive from everyone. Be open to those lessons. Allow them to guide you forward on your journey. Do not live out a place of fear. Fear will hold you back from achieving everything you desire. Live fearlessly!

Life will not always be easy. That is because there are lessons to be learned. In those times do not act in haste. Let the chaos subside and come at it with a clear mind. Sit with yourself and listen to your inner voice. It will never lead you astray.  The hard lessons in life are the ones where you gain the most wisdom. Your darkest moments will be the moments that inspire others.

Rest and self-care are key to regaining energy. Make sure that you take care of yourself. You are worthy or rest. You are worthy to be cared for. Make yourself a priority. When you make yourself a priority you are telling others that you are deserving.

You cannot always be the giver. You deserve to receive too.  In the past you have always gave everything to others. You have always accepted less in return. Those days are no longer. Continue to give with no expectations. This will allow you to receive. Be a good receiver. You are just as deserving as everyone else.

Do not compare yourself to others. You can never be another and another can never be you. There is only one you in the universe and you are that missing piece to the puzzle. There is no one that can ever be or love like you. Your love is special. Your love heals. Your love is the most special kind of love because it is unconditional. It is the love that releases all judgments and meets people on the most intimate level. Allow others to show you this love too. Do not close yourself off.

Continue to cultivate the light inside you. Do not let it dim to make others comfortable. Continue to break the habits of negative self-talk and replacing it with favorable self-assurance.  Do not lose sight of your passion because your passion leads you to your destiny. Working hard is your normal. Don’t forget to enjoy the achievements that have been afforded to you.  Acknowledge them and appreciate them. These are the foundation to where you are going. The life you always dreamed is happening for you. See it! Envision it! Know it! Believe in it!